A couple years ago you met this gorgeous guy, you fell instantly in love with him as you started dating frequently. You asked advice from your friends and they told you to be careful on what you say, on what you do cos you don’t want him to get the wrong idea of you. Then you read a bunch of articles around net how the first dates should be. Then you bought this magazine since most girls consider it the best for love advice. The days go by and you have created a stable wall and some more barriers around you.
Now you do feel safe to be around him. A date after a date, a year after a year and a common decision to live with him in the same house. It’s the man you dreamed. It’s what you always wanted, to share the same apartment with a person who understand you completely, who treats you like a queen. The first months seem like a fairytale. The next ones start feeling like you try hard to climb on a mountain.
Now the secrets start taking place and create another wall between you and him. You don’t lie to him yet this distance is getting bigger. The fights lead nowhere lately and you don’t know why. That night you yell at him “You don’t know who I am!” and he replies “I thought I knew you. I don’t know who you are anymore.”. He slams the door and leaves you behind bursting into tears. What happened? Why he left you?
You should better ask yourself “Did he ever know me as person? Did I ever give him a chance?” and then remember how you wanted to be the perfect girlfriend for him. Remember now how you created your beautiful and stable wall. Remember how you never told him so many things about you cos you thought he would never like you. How can you be with someone if you cannot be yourself? How can you build a relationship based on a fake image you project?
Trust yourself, love yourself, start listening more carefully to that little voice inside you. Next time you go on a date, don’t ask for advice. Let your intuition lead you. If it was not the right choice, at least it was yours and only yours. Above all be real, the person who will be around you, he will accept you for who you are not for who you make him think that you are. Honesty is a strong base for a beautiful relationship. Just go for it!
Do you remember all these conversations you had with your friends about spirituality and past lives? You were in doubt since you didn’t have a personal experience on that topic. That “something” never happened in your life, that ultimate moment of enlightenment that would change your life forever. Though you do know that you have these terrible issues with your partner. You want to break up but then you feel clingy to him. Well this has nothing to do with spirituality right? It’s just you, him and an issue that no one else can understand. Only these sleepless nights can feel your pain and a big “Why?” keeps popping up.
Then your best friend suggests that you should try a past life regression. You hesitate but in the end, what you have to lose? Your partner was your husband in that life, you had a bad relationship cos you fell in love in the middle of war, you got pregnant and then you had to abort the child. You refuse to believe but yet you feel your body responding to the reading. Your body starts hurting as if it wants to break free. You start crying hard and you keep shaking your head in disbelief at the same time.
In this lifetime as humans we regress specific parts of our past lives. You are here too to remember, to fix a past life issue, to learn and relearn, to understand and set yourself free. The people who are around you, they have been there before, helping you or trying to harm you. The questions you have to ask yourself is “Why should I repeat this specific things in this lifetime? What’s my lesson?”. A process that won’t be easy but it will be your 180 degree change. Are you ready for this big step? Are you ready to face the deepest parts of your soul? Are you ready to dive and discover big truths? Are you ready to know the real You?
“I believe there is a another world waiting for us, Sixsmith. A better world. And I’ll be waiting for you there” Robert Frobisher from Cloud Atlas. The world you see and the worlds you don’t. The fact that you can’t see them with your physical eyes, it doesn’t mean that they don’t exist. Each one of us holds a piece of truth, like a small window of the knowledge. Can you imagine what it would happen if one person held all the knowledge? There would be no communication between people since there would be nothing to be discussed. No knowledge would be shared and there would be no interest for life and no need for any experience.
Do you understand now why we are all connected? We are all small pieces of a big puzzle. Hold the hand of the person next to you and you are instantly connected. Maybe you can’t see the reason but you know that something is there. You “remember” this person, the attitude, the like or dislike towards their face. In that other world you were friends or the biggest enemies. When you came here on earth, you find this person again.
“We cross and re-cross our old paths like figure-skaters.” Life lessons are not being learned in one lifetime, you have to come back and work on them again. When you have a “project” or “mission” to finish, you need to be present again and continue from where you had it left the previous time. No one forced you to be here. Neither a higher being or another external force. You came here by your own will. It would be easy to blame someone else for your own choices. Don’t expect a peaceful world when your soul mission is done. A better world yes, a perfect world no.
Work on that small piece of the puzzle you hold. Study it, understand it, figure everything out. You are not alone. You were never alone. Have faith on yourself and remember that knowledge is all you have. You can access it anytime you want. Or you can just quit. The power is in your hands. Are you ready to use it wisely?
Last night you had one more time that intense dream about jumping off a huge cliff. You kept falling and falling and falling… Before you crash on the ground you got up. Have you noticed that usually these dreams show up when you are under big pressure? Your dream stops to the point before you crash cos you have to decide what you really want to do with your life. Do you want to jump and set yourself free? Do you want to jump and crash on the ground once and forever? Before you take breakfast, give yourself 10 minutes. These are the crucial minutes when you still have a vivid memory of your dream. Meditate and set yourself back in the dream. Now jump again and see yourself falling. Feel the tension, the fear, the overwhelming but remember that you are the one who can stop it anytime. Now see yourself landing on the ground without a single scratch. You survived under the pressure. You tamed that fear from your subconsciousness.
You grab your jacket fast as you rush to your work. Your boss is waiting for you on the door as you are late this time. He gives you the look of failure. You give him the look of falling into nothingness. He’s confused cos he doesn’t know if he made you be scared of him or if you broke off his pressure. As you sit on your chair in front of your desk, write on a paper “Freedom”. These little moments can set you fee. When you can take control of situations like these, nothing can take you down. You are more powerful than you think. Everything is in your mind, mind over matter as most people say. You know it’s true. You feel it’s true. Enjoy your new reality. The reality you made and you will make everyday. A spirit can never be tamed unless it’s his will. It’s up to you what you want to do with your life. Free will. Your choice. Enjoy and manifest it!