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When you can’t find Happiness and you don’t know Why

“Take the lessons you’ve learned and move on” my friend Diana said today which gave to me and many people food for thought. What happens though when we can’t find happiness and we feel stuck into a negative situation? Do you feel that you are stuck on your path? Do you feel that your past is more important than your future? Do you feel that there is “something” that has you hooked and you can’t move forward? It’s a common situation for many people, they feel trapped but at the same time they are not willing to get out of the situation.

We constantly create energetic connections known as energy ‘cords’. Energy cords are created in linear form connecting one energy point to the next. Just like the creation of a line, the origin of linear connection can be on either side. The intent of energetic cords are usually bad rather than good because these cords are the way needy souls sap energy out of another’ s physically and/or spiritually. But there are good energy cord forms, like the root of a tree or the spine of our energy bodies; and just like cosmic energy, energy cords can travel infinitely in both directions following the duality of its creation.”

So what exactly is happening to you? Let’s say that you have this relationship with your ex boyfriend, which is usually “on” and “off”. You really want to be happy but you can’t move on to the next relationship. Consciously you tried everything but subconsciously you have more than one reasons to feel connected to him. He was the one who was there for you when you were sick. He brought you flowers although  it was not Valentine’s Day. You had amazing vacation on that beautiful island. Though he’s grumpy. Sometimes he abused you and you still have the mark on your body. You secretly call this the “mark of his love”.

He’s on a similar situation with you. He can’t let it go and he’s stuck too. It seems that he’s with another girl but you know that he’s not happy. You want to cut this energetic connection, this cord between you and him. Keep in mind that it can be more than one energy cords, different for every chakra. Some people say “Just take a knife and cut the cord” but let me ask you this; how easy is to cut a cord between a mother and a child? When we do have relationship with people for that long, they are our “family”. How many times you have called your best friend sister?

Before you cut any cords, make sure what kind of karmic relationship you have with your boyfriend or any other person with whom you have these issues. Past life regression is a great way of understanding problems like that before you start cutting the energy cords. If you just try to cut the cords without knowing what happened in the past, it’s pretty much what happens in the movies “the blue or the red wire?”.

Feel free to contact Zed and I at the Psychic Nest for free spiritual advice. You can also take advantage on the free past life and auric/energy reading which is available for all our new Facebook fans.

180 Degrees to Change your Life

Do you remember all these conversations you had with your friends about spirituality and past lives? You were in doubt since you didn’t have a personal experience on that topic. That “something” never happened in your life, that ultimate moment of enlightenment that would change your life forever. Though you do know that you have these terrible issues with your partner. You want to break up but then you feel clingy to him. Well this has nothing to do with spirituality right? It’s just you, him and an issue that no one else can understand. Only these sleepless nights can feel your pain and a big “Why?” keeps popping  up.

Then your best friend suggests that you should try a past life regression. You hesitate but in the end, what you have to lose? Your partner was your husband in that life, you had a bad relationship cos you fell in love in the middle of war, you got pregnant and then you had to abort the child. You refuse to believe but yet you feel your body responding to the reading. Your body starts hurting as if it wants to break free. You start crying hard and you keep shaking your head in disbelief at the same time.

In this lifetime as humans we regress specific parts of our past lives. You are here too to remember, to fix a past life issue, to learn and relearn, to understand and set yourself free. The people who are around you, they have been there before, helping you or trying to harm you. The questions you have to ask yourself is “Why should I repeat this specific things in this lifetime? What’s my lesson?”. A process that won’t be easy but it will be your 180 degree change.  Are you ready for this big step? Are you ready to face the deepest parts of your soul? Are you ready to dive and discover big truths? Are you ready to know the real You?

I “heart” you green – Happy Valentine’s Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day and a big doze of green and no red at all this year! If you are wondering why you should avoid red, a couple realizations may persuade you. Red is the color of the root chakra that it’s connected to fear, grounding, changes, detachment, fragility and so on. So instead of celebrating love this day, you are afraid that your boyfriend may break up with you, that he won’t get the right gift for you and if you are alone, you feel so fragile and you feel do detached from everyone out there who has a relationship. Apart from that, red makes the heart racing faster by making you feel more stressed. Today just try to incorporate green into whatever you do. Green is the color of the heart chakra, bringing energies of love, understanding and friendship.

When you go out with your date, focus on the earth colors such as brown, green, grey or ivory. You will notice that these colors will create a different atmosphere and you will radiate it to your surroundings. Your boyfriend will feel the difference, you will notice that he will be more open to talk about things he never said before. Apart from that, buy him an Eco-friendly gift that will be different that ones you usually buy every year. Have a wonderful time and if you are single this day, just stay away from anything that will create unnecessary drama or tears. Just be yourself and enjoy!

Turn back time or turn your back on time?

You never expected that you would wish to turn back time, not only to fix things but to go back in the life you had as a kid or teenager. All these daily life problems make you wanting to go back, to forget everything and be carefree. Do you remember though what you kept telling your parents when you were younger? “I want to grow faster to leave this house, I want my freedom!” If you feel that not much has changed yet, that you think you started a new life while your past keeps making you wanting to go back, it’s when you know that it’s time to fix your past once and forever. Many people tell you to turn your back to what happened in the past. They will tell you that you need a fresh start without pain, without worries and no drama. If you just skip your past, then it will keep popping up in moments when you need to take serious decisions.

Let me give you a simple example. Let’s say that you want to get married to a guy you are together for two years and lately you feel that he’s cheating on you. Then you remember that your ex never cheated on you but you did have that sexual chemistry. You think that you overrated the current relationship, maybe it’s time to call your ex, date or something. Just having some fun even before you will fully commit to a guy, a guy you are not really sure if he’s the right one. Now you see what happened? You haven’t solved the issues with your ex boyfriend and yet you want to move forward to a marriage. Face your past, accept the pain, heal and move on. Fear will try to keep you back but you are stronger than that, yes?