Tag Archive | relationship

You, your broken heart and a hidden truth

A couple years ago you met this gorgeous guy, you fell instantly in love with him as you started dating frequently. You asked advice from your friends and they told you to be careful on what you say, on what you do cos you don’t want him to get the wrong idea of you. Then you read a bunch of articles around net how the first dates should be. Then you bought this magazine since most girls consider it the best for love advice. The days go by and you have created a stable wall and some more barriers around you.

Now you do feel safe to be around him. A date after a date, a year after a year and a common decision to live with him in the same house. It’s the man you dreamed. It’s what you always wanted, to share the same apartment with a person who understand you completely, who treats you like a queen. The first months seem like a fairytale. The next ones start feeling like you try hard to climb on a mountain.

Now the secrets start taking place and create another wall between you and him. You don’t lie to him yet this distance is getting bigger. The fights lead nowhere lately and you don’t know why. That night you yell at him “You don’t know who I am!” and he replies “I thought I knew you. I don’t know who you are anymore.”. He slams the door and leaves you behind bursting into tears. What happened? Why he left you?

You should better ask yourself “Did he ever know me as person? Did I ever give him a chance?” and then remember how you wanted to be the perfect girlfriend for him. Remember now how you created your beautiful and stable wall. Remember how you never told him so many things about you cos you thought he would never like you. How can you be with someone if you cannot be yourself? How can you build a relationship based on a fake image you project?

Trust yourself, love yourself, start listening more carefully to that little voice inside you. Next time you go on a date, don’t ask for advice. Let your intuition lead you. If it was not the right choice, at least it was yours and only yours. Above all be real, the person who will be around you, he will accept you for who you are not for who you make him think that you are. Honesty is a strong base for a beautiful relationship. Just go for it!

When you can’t find Happiness and you don’t know Why

“Take the lessons you’ve learned and move on” my friend Diana said today which gave to me and many people food for thought. What happens though when we can’t find happiness and we feel stuck into a negative situation? Do you feel that you are stuck on your path? Do you feel that your past is more important than your future? Do you feel that there is “something” that has you hooked and you can’t move forward? It’s a common situation for many people, they feel trapped but at the same time they are not willing to get out of the situation.

We constantly create energetic connections known as energy ‘cords’. Energy cords are created in linear form connecting one energy point to the next. Just like the creation of a line, the origin of linear connection can be on either side. The intent of energetic cords are usually bad rather than good because these cords are the way needy souls sap energy out of another’ s physically and/or spiritually. But there are good energy cord forms, like the root of a tree or the spine of our energy bodies; and just like cosmic energy, energy cords can travel infinitely in both directions following the duality of its creation.”

So what exactly is happening to you? Let’s say that you have this relationship with your ex boyfriend, which is usually “on” and “off”. You really want to be happy but you can’t move on to the next relationship. Consciously you tried everything but subconsciously you have more than one reasons to feel connected to him. He was the one who was there for you when you were sick. He brought you flowers although  it was not Valentine’s Day. You had amazing vacation on that beautiful island. Though he’s grumpy. Sometimes he abused you and you still have the mark on your body. You secretly call this the “mark of his love”.

He’s on a similar situation with you. He can’t let it go and he’s stuck too. It seems that he’s with another girl but you know that he’s not happy. You want to cut this energetic connection, this cord between you and him. Keep in mind that it can be more than one energy cords, different for every chakra. Some people say “Just take a knife and cut the cord” but let me ask you this; how easy is to cut a cord between a mother and a child? When we do have relationship with people for that long, they are our “family”. How many times you have called your best friend sister?

Before you cut any cords, make sure what kind of karmic relationship you have with your boyfriend or any other person with whom you have these issues. Past life regression is a great way of understanding problems like that before you start cutting the energy cords. If you just try to cut the cords without knowing what happened in the past, it’s pretty much what happens in the movies “the blue or the red wire?”.

Feel free to contact Zed and I at the Psychic Nest for free spiritual advice. You can also take advantage on the free past life and auric/energy reading which is available for all our new Facebook fans.

180 Degrees to Change your Life

Do you remember all these conversations you had with your friends about spirituality and past lives? You were in doubt since you didn’t have a personal experience on that topic. That “something” never happened in your life, that ultimate moment of enlightenment that would change your life forever. Though you do know that you have these terrible issues with your partner. You want to break up but then you feel clingy to him. Well this has nothing to do with spirituality right? It’s just you, him and an issue that no one else can understand. Only these sleepless nights can feel your pain and a big “Why?” keeps popping  up.

Then your best friend suggests that you should try a past life regression. You hesitate but in the end, what you have to lose? Your partner was your husband in that life, you had a bad relationship cos you fell in love in the middle of war, you got pregnant and then you had to abort the child. You refuse to believe but yet you feel your body responding to the reading. Your body starts hurting as if it wants to break free. You start crying hard and you keep shaking your head in disbelief at the same time.

In this lifetime as humans we regress specific parts of our past lives. You are here too to remember, to fix a past life issue, to learn and relearn, to understand and set yourself free. The people who are around you, they have been there before, helping you or trying to harm you. The questions you have to ask yourself is “Why should I repeat this specific things in this lifetime? What’s my lesson?”. A process that won’t be easy but it will be your 180 degree change.  Are you ready for this big step? Are you ready to face the deepest parts of your soul? Are you ready to dive and discover big truths? Are you ready to know the real You?

Rewind, Regret and Rough Reality

Have you ever felt that life will bring all the “bad” things in one day? When you go at work, you have a fight with a coworker and you feel guilty. You are driving back home as your cell phone rings; it’s your dad and he wants you to have dinner with the family on weekend. You just refuse by finding an excuse and again you feel guilty. Before you sleep, all these thoughts are in your head as you keep rolling all over. All these images, the conversations you had, the excuses, the guilt and the biggest question of all “What if I told them otherwise? Did I make the wrong decision?”. Write your thoughts down and actually see how many times you had to use excuses. Do you feel that you are doing the wrong thing or that you are around the wrong people? This pretty much would explain why you are not on the same level of frequencies and why you try to bridge the gap by using all these excuses. You feel bad cos you suppress your needs and if you don’t, you feel guilty again towards yourself.

Human relationships are hard but yet again above all it’s the self respect. If you made a specific decision, it means that at that time it was the best for you. There is no point to analyze the situation too much. You will definitely realize that from every aspect you will feel guilty. Now you may wonder if there is anything to do so as to fix it. How you will stop regretting about most of the things you do?  Be real. Be yourself. Get in touch with the knowledge within. If you feel that you made a bad decision, before you start blaming yourself or everyone else, ask yourself why you did. One sentence or one word will be enough to define it. Know your motives and make the necessary changes. Reach out to the people who want to be around you. You will feel who is the right one for you. If you feel yourself and that you don’t need to pretend or find excuses, then it’s when you know that the friend with similar mindset will give you her hand and walk with you!

When happiness stops being a drug

Years come and go and you still try to define happiness in your life. All these little things that make you smile, all these moments that truly gave you a taste of happiness and this one guy who means the world to you. When you met him, you had a lot of fun, heartwarming conversations, walking next to the seashore and the most important; he made you smile, he gave your life a different meaning. Your face was shining and every time you talked with your friends, you kept telling them that he’s the one, you are so happy with him. One day he shows up and he asks you to break up with him. You pushed him a lot he said. You wanted the perfect man he said. He made you happy while he was not he said. You stay there frozen, so numb as he wished you all the best in your life. He closed the door as you kept staying there numb. He took the happiness with him.

The next months, you were depressed. How could he do that to you? You blame him but keep in mind that you hold responsibility too. How can you rely on someone for making you happy? This means that before you meet him, you never really felt what happiness is. It starts from within and if you keep searching it outside of yourself in the means of a thing or person then it won’t take long that it will turn into your drug. If a show on TV is the only thing that makes you happy, then it’s when you know that you made it your happiness drug. When the show stops, you will become depressed. What’s your inner spark? What really makes you happy? No one is perfect and happiness is far away from perfection. It’s a big journey and you are ready to enjoy it!