Tag Archive | regret

Rewind, Regret and Rough Reality

Have you ever felt that life will bring all the “bad” things in one day? When you go at work, you have a fight with a coworker and you feel guilty. You are driving back home as your cell phone rings; it’s your dad and he wants you to have dinner with the family on weekend. You just refuse by finding an excuse and again you feel guilty. Before you sleep, all these thoughts are in your head as you keep rolling all over. All these images, the conversations you had, the excuses, the guilt and the biggest question of all “What if I told them otherwise? Did I make the wrong decision?”. Write your thoughts down and actually see how many times you had to use excuses. Do you feel that you are doing the wrong thing or that you are around the wrong people? This pretty much would explain why you are not on the same level of frequencies and why you try to bridge the gap by using all these excuses. You feel bad cos you suppress your needs and if you don’t, you feel guilty again towards yourself.

Human relationships are hard but yet again above all it’s the self respect. If you made a specific decision, it means that at that time it was the best for you. There is no point to analyze the situation too much. You will definitely realize that from every aspect you will feel guilty. Now you may wonder if there is anything to do so as to fix it. How you will stop regretting about most of the things you do?  Be real. Be yourself. Get in touch with the knowledge within. If you feel that you made a bad decision, before you start blaming yourself or everyone else, ask yourself why you did. One sentence or one word will be enough to define it. Know your motives and make the necessary changes. Reach out to the people who want to be around you. You will feel who is the right one for you. If you feel yourself and that you don’t need to pretend or find excuses, then it’s when you know that the friend with similar mindset will give you her hand and walk with you!

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I’m gonna walk all over your Ego

Admit it, you’ve been in this game many times “Truth or Dare?” and you were always confused on what to choose. Speak the truth which later may be used against you? Be dared and do something you will regret it later? Oh well, it’s  just a game but what happens when you have to face the biggest energetic challenge on your body? Ego is related to the solar plexus, many theories are written on how to control your ego or even cause ego death. If you are not familiar with the term ego death, it’s pretty much when you completely surrender your ego, destroy it so as the energies can flow “clean” to your heart chakra. I believe that without our egos we have no personality, no will and motivation for life. The practice that has to be done is simply you surrender to yourself, without having only you in priority in your life. Balance is the key.

As it concerns truth, it’s related to your throat chakra, if you lie pretty much your throat energies become dusty and muddy, you start coughing or feeling that “thing” on your neck that blocks you from speaking. When someone comes up to you saying “I dare you to tell me the truth”, this will automatically activate your ego which will create shields all around, your defense mechanism and on the other hand your throat will start being annoyed and feeling sore. A simple sentence can be the trigger of an energetic mess. How do you reply on that without getting into a fight? Just reply “Truth shouldn’t be challenged like that. I agree that we need to talk but not under these conditions. I promise we will talk later”. By saying that, your ego is free of being challenged and your throat can relax till you are ready to speak. Always remember not to get into conversation which is already provoking, you don’t want to say something you will regret later!