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Parties, Crowds, Energy Vampires and You

During the week, you anticipate for the weekend to come, to get out and have fun on a club with your friends. Have you noticed what usually happens to your body when you come back home after being in a party or a crowded place these days? If you are not a person who drinks a lot and suffers from hangover but you still feel wasted, tired and drained, then it’s time to think twice about going back. Or maybe not. Your friends will think that you are weird. Some of them will say that you are not social even. The question is “Do you care?” but the most important is “Do you really know what is going on when you are in a big crowd?”.

Nowadays movies and TV shows have brainwashed us with vampires, werewolves and all these “What if” in your head “What if they were real in this world”. The thing that these shows won’t tell you is that actually they are real. More real than you think. Not in the sense of them drinking blood but on an energetic level. You will notice when you are around these people that they want your constant attention; it can be your mother or even your best friend. Or that famous singer who gives that big performance on stage. It doesn’t matter who is it but the energy they carry. Or better the energies they do take from people.

How do energy vampires “work”? Why in the end you should pay attention to them? Their desire for attention makes their energies to shift into cords. Imagine now how a spider works. She looks for her prey while creating all this big web around her and whoever gets stuck, he’s doomed. The same thing happens on an energetic level with the energy vampires. They create their “web” and they drain people from their energies. You can see on their faces an euphoric expression, being “high” without being on drugs, being more energetic while you and the people around them feeling more and more tired.

They always pick the right “victims”, people they know that their energies have high frequencies. If that specific person keeps calling you every Saturday to go clubbing without you knowing him that well and you just say yes only cos you have no one to hang around, then you do know that you are the “chosen one”. The best solution to this problem is to wear as much white as you can on your clothes and accessories so as to reflect their energy attacks. Be aware, protect your energy field by creating energy shields and go out now. You still want to go for clubbing and this time you know this; no more unwanted headaches, no more draining, no more being tired!

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Stop Waiting and Start Changing

Have you ever had this dream when you sit on the edge of the mountain and everything changes except you? As the clouds move faster, the sun is on a rush as the moon takes its place and the seasons are speeding up as if summer will last one minute and next thing you know the autumn is here. You are just an observer, you can do nothing else than going along with the flow. Or at least this is what you think. Now add on the scenery humans. Fragile peace, upcoming wars, starvation, thirst, pain, natural disasters are the things you see on that fast forward mode. You close your eyes. You don’t want to see more. You don’t want to feel more.

“There is nothing I can do”, you think and an echo of children’s voices “You can help yourself”. You shake your head in disbelief. “Do I want it?”, you ask yourself. “Are you scared?”, the children ask. “I don’t know you, stop talking!”, you exclaim. “We don’t know you either but we care. Do you care?”, they say as their voices fade in the wind. You start crying so much. It  makes your whole body hurting but you don’t stop. You feel a nudge on your shoulder. ” Wake up”, you hear that female voice saying to you.

You feel so confused in your dream but one minute later you open your eyes. It’s your mom trying to wake you up. “Mom, I’m awake”, you tell her and she looks at you surprised. “What happened to you?”, she asks with a caring voice. “Mom, I want to change the world”, you say with tears in your eyes. “Then start by helping me to bring some food to that family across.”, she smiles at you widely. Now you know what she means. Don’t wait for the right moment. Be the one who will make the moment the right one. Start changing the world by being the Change. You are the Change!

Strip off the fake Confidence

Girls love their make-up , boys love their cars and guess what happens if you take them away. If you are still wondering, ask your best friend to meet you in the cafeteria without her make-up on and your boyfriend to use public transportation to come over there too. Pretty much you expect two upcoming situations. On the first one, they find a terrible excuse not to show up. On the second one, they do show up but their confidence is under zero. It’s not bad to own a car or having beautiful clothes. The bad thing is to depend on them so as to boost your self esteem. Take away the expensive houses from the celebrities and their status is harmed. This goes along with their confidence. When we live in a society that nurtures us with these ethics and when we are stuck in a system in where you have to be successful so as to be “important”, “special”, “unique”, it’s when you know that you have to fight back. Anything materialistic shouldn’t be above anything spiritual or personal growth. Though if you don’t do it, you feel you will get kicked out of the system.

This pretty much means that your friends will push you away, your parents will consider you a failure and you will feel the need to leave your town or even country. It has happened to everyone but how do you act? Lower your head and stare at the ground? Shrug and move along? Sigh deeply and have the worst thoughts about yourself? This means that you surrender, you let the system win. The system that you hate so much, that even lead you to take antidepressants cos you are not good enough. Draw a big line and don’t let anyone cross it. It’s your personal boundaries, it’s the space that you need to be yourself. You need to apologize to no one for who you are. Meditate, join a yoga class or martial arts, write daily affirmations, all these will lead to your confidence boost. This is what you want. This is what you need; Inner peace and trust yourself!

All Grown Up – Responsibility and Reality

“I’m all grown up mom, you don’t need to tell me what to do”, you exclaimed when you were 10 years old. “I want to be a child again, when I had no problems back then”, you sobbed when you lost your job. Did you ever grow up in the end? Did you get yourself lost in the process? Many times people do rush since they things cos the idea of being present on another period of time seems amazing. It’s like wanting to be a parent only by thinking that kids are super cute. Growing up always brings responsibilities and this is what you didn’t keep in mind. Life is not easy but it can be easier if you are conscious of the changes. You can’t expect to be all grown up without facing the changes and the responsibilities. This right away points to your root chakra , to all your fears and how all these years you’ve been able to cope with.

Physical growth comes along with the years but spiritual and personality growth doesn’t follow this paradigm. You could be 80 years old but with attitude of a 10 year old kid or vice versa. Work on the reality you create on a daily basis and be present. Don’t try to rush life for any reason. The more you push forward, the more you pack issues and you try to run with them on your back. In the end you will break down, you will realize that you have to face more problems than you ever expected. Root chakra meditation would be beneficial to the point that you will be able to feel grounded and ready for the life’s challenges. Don’t be grown up cos someone told you so. Don’t be grown up cos you want to escape a situation. Be grown up cos you are mature enough to be responsible for your own self!

Don’t let stress take your smile away

Do you remember when you were a kid and most of the times you were smiling, laughing and being carefree? Do you remember how many times your parents told you when you starting growing up more that it’s time to get life seriously? Do you remember when something silly happened in the class, you giggled and then you got kicked out cos you shouldn’t do it? So many things to remember as you realize that your smiles used to be real. They came straight from your soul as all your body felt the happiness with a simple smile. You came to a point nowadays that you realized that many times you smile cos you have to. You don’t really mean it but it will solve many issues or even prevent a fight. Many nights you watch fun movies that make you cheer up and laugh. When the movie is done, the feeling of loneliness is harder. As the days go by, the daily routine sucks you up on black hole full of stress. You need that genuine smile back. You also need to realize how your body works when the smile comes straight from your soul.

When you have a genuine, a real moment of happiness then it will be reflected right away to your chakras  as an expression to your soul. A full body experience that will give you an instant pleasure that can’t be compared to anything else. When you come to a point that you laugh cos someone said a joke and you feel like laughing cos either everyone else did or you don’t want the person feel bad, then here you have rationalizing laughter. This comes straight from your head chakra, your third eye as you need to find a reason to laugh. The more you are on a stressful environment or lifestyle, the more you will observe that the times you laugh will be less and less spontaneous and genuine. If you are wondering what you need to do to fix it, the answer is energy work. This can be accomplished through self expression and mindset of freedom. You may want to laugh on the silliest things, you may want to go on a playground when no one is around, just remember all the things you did as a kid and made you happy. Smile again, feel and be happy!

Rewind, Regret and Rough Reality

Have you ever felt that life will bring all the “bad” things in one day? When you go at work, you have a fight with a coworker and you feel guilty. You are driving back home as your cell phone rings; it’s your dad and he wants you to have dinner with the family on weekend. You just refuse by finding an excuse and again you feel guilty. Before you sleep, all these thoughts are in your head as you keep rolling all over. All these images, the conversations you had, the excuses, the guilt and the biggest question of all “What if I told them otherwise? Did I make the wrong decision?”. Write your thoughts down and actually see how many times you had to use excuses. Do you feel that you are doing the wrong thing or that you are around the wrong people? This pretty much would explain why you are not on the same level of frequencies and why you try to bridge the gap by using all these excuses. You feel bad cos you suppress your needs and if you don’t, you feel guilty again towards yourself.

Human relationships are hard but yet again above all it’s the self respect. If you made a specific decision, it means that at that time it was the best for you. There is no point to analyze the situation too much. You will definitely realize that from every aspect you will feel guilty. Now you may wonder if there is anything to do so as to fix it. How you will stop regretting about most of the things you do?  Be real. Be yourself. Get in touch with the knowledge within. If you feel that you made a bad decision, before you start blaming yourself or everyone else, ask yourself why you did. One sentence or one word will be enough to define it. Know your motives and make the necessary changes. Reach out to the people who want to be around you. You will feel who is the right one for you. If you feel yourself and that you don’t need to pretend or find excuses, then it’s when you know that the friend with similar mindset will give you her hand and walk with you!

The dark side of Your Moon

We all have a dark side or better a side of ourselves that we didn’t know it exists. On a big emotional pressure and tension such as a fight or when we have lost control by drinking alcohol for example, then you see this “monster” coming out. You don’t recognize yourself and you are scared that you will push people away with this behavior. Well not really, you are more scared of dealing with this part of yourself. If you are wondering how this happened to you, think logically all the moments that caused you pain in the past. Someone broke your heart, the bad relationship with your parents, the boss who keeps telling you that you are not good enough for the job and so on. You don’t want to deal with these issues cos it hurts. It makes total sense but think now what you do. All these little moments are being piled up. They start forming and create a part of yourself who is completely negative. Consciously you are able to control it or silence it but there will be moments that you will lose control.

You can’t do otherwise but to deal with the “monster”. You may have a hard time to deal with that but trust me it will be the best decision you ever made. A simple way to start solving the puzzle, it’s to write down all the things that happened to you till now. Then categorize them according to how much they have effected you. Start with the most hurtful ones, work on your chakras by cleansing them and then move to the next one. You have heard that our worst enemies are ourselves. It’s true when you realize how little you know yourselves while you demand others at the same time to understand you. It’s not your fault but yet you can start working on that. Don’t let fear keep you back, have faith and put all the love on yourself. Are you ready to deal with it?