Tag Archive | motivation

When opinions count more than you think

Today you went to the grocery store and these ladies gave you the look of death. They started whispering and giggling, as you passed by you heard them talking about the guy who keeps coming to your apartment. It’s funny how they say that you should get married and stop being promiscuous. The funnier thing is that they have no clue that it’s your brother. In the end, it’s none of their business, yet they would do anything today to see you frown and have sad face.

If you think a bit about it, their attitude shows that they are jealous of you. They wish they had that chance with a man who cares about them and makes them feel good.  Since they can’t have it, they are mad and when they see someone else happy, it’s when they try to do anything to see that happiness being broken into pieces. By keeping that in mind, you save your sanity for the day.

It happens everywhere, at home, at work, even with the social transportation. Someone will whisper something or they will stare at you cos they don’t like the way you look. If you feel offended and uncomfortable, it means that you don’t accept yourself for who you are and what you do. Don’t be afraid to be unique, don’t be afraid to be different. It’s your right and no one can take it away from you.

As for all these opinions, you have power to mute them in your mind. Don’t let them poison you. You know better what is good for you. Love yourself, be yourself, be happy and smile always!

Don’t be afraid to create your own Reality

“We are creators. As creations, we hold the divine imprints of the cosmos within ourselves.” Any changes show us that we are ready to disconnect from our reality and we are ready to jump to the next one. A reality within a new reality, the world we create. Your microcosm affected by your energies, the people around you as you create your own cosmic network. The dynamics of each change is up to you, reminding you the basic rule of this creation; free will. The possibilities are infinite so as you.

The last year you have this big issue with the landlord. You want to find a new apartment but you start thinking all the parameters of your moving out. How much is going to cost, your dog will change environment, you will spend a lot of time to make your space the way you want it, you even need more time to meet all these new people in your neighborhood. In the end you just think that the landlord may have some bad days and his attitude will change over time. The time goes by, you keep getting more excuses as you refuse to move out.

Changes by themselves are not scary. Our mindset creates this illusion field which contains the excuses. If you look behind them, you will see these weird shadows. These are the real deal, the fear why you don’t want to take the necessary decisions. In fact these fears merge together by creating a bigger fear; the paradox of the fear of the fear itself. If you admit this, then you have done the first step to push a bit forward.

When you will go to your new apartment, you will start creating again. It’s like when you destroy a spiderweb. The spider won’t quit but she will go to a new place and make her home again. If she can do it, you can do it to. If you need more inspiration, look around you. Read articles and watch videos about the animal kingdom. You know, we are not that far away from them. “What human history books say about animals is that they have co-existed with us for as long as we can document; we even see animals in ancient documents and old wall carvings. Yet we have not quite made the connection between the pair of us and them. The truth is that we are them; today, humanity is in a dislocated form.

Now you have a couple more reasons to see yourself as a creator. If you feel a bit hesitant, it’s cos of how technology has taken over humanity. This is how we slowly forgot that we can create, to use all the means we have as humans. Do you feel a bit more motivated now to move out? Do you feel doing a couple more changes in your life? Feel alive, feel stronger, don’t be afraid to create your own reality. You are more than you think you are and you can make small miracles everyday!

Stop Waiting and Start Changing

Have you ever had this dream when you sit on the edge of the mountain and everything changes except you? As the clouds move faster, the sun is on a rush as the moon takes its place and the seasons are speeding up as if summer will last one minute and next thing you know the autumn is here. You are just an observer, you can do nothing else than going along with the flow. Or at least this is what you think. Now add on the scenery humans. Fragile peace, upcoming wars, starvation, thirst, pain, natural disasters are the things you see on that fast forward mode. You close your eyes. You don’t want to see more. You don’t want to feel more.

“There is nothing I can do”, you think and an echo of children’s voices “You can help yourself”. You shake your head in disbelief. “Do I want it?”, you ask yourself. “Are you scared?”, the children ask. “I don’t know you, stop talking!”, you exclaim. “We don’t know you either but we care. Do you care?”, they say as their voices fade in the wind. You start crying so much. It  makes your whole body hurting but you don’t stop. You feel a nudge on your shoulder. ” Wake up”, you hear that female voice saying to you.

You feel so confused in your dream but one minute later you open your eyes. It’s your mom trying to wake you up. “Mom, I’m awake”, you tell her and she looks at you surprised. “What happened to you?”, she asks with a caring voice. “Mom, I want to change the world”, you say with tears in your eyes. “Then start by helping me to bring some food to that family across.”, she smiles at you widely. Now you know what she means. Don’t wait for the right moment. Be the one who will make the moment the right one. Start changing the world by being the Change. You are the Change!

I’m gonna walk all over your Ego

Admit it, you’ve been in this game many times “Truth or Dare?” and you were always confused on what to choose. Speak the truth which later may be used against you? Be dared and do something you will regret it later? Oh well, it’s  just a game but what happens when you have to face the biggest energetic challenge on your body? Ego is related to the solar plexus, many theories are written on how to control your ego or even cause ego death. If you are not familiar with the term ego death, it’s pretty much when you completely surrender your ego, destroy it so as the energies can flow “clean” to your heart chakra. I believe that without our egos we have no personality, no will and motivation for life. The practice that has to be done is simply you surrender to yourself, without having only you in priority in your life. Balance is the key.

As it concerns truth, it’s related to your throat chakra, if you lie pretty much your throat energies become dusty and muddy, you start coughing or feeling that “thing” on your neck that blocks you from speaking. When someone comes up to you saying “I dare you to tell me the truth”, this will automatically activate your ego which will create shields all around, your defense mechanism and on the other hand your throat will start being annoyed and feeling sore. A simple sentence can be the trigger of an energetic mess. How do you reply on that without getting into a fight? Just reply “Truth shouldn’t be challenged like that. I agree that we need to talk but not under these conditions. I promise we will talk later”. By saying that, your ego is free of being challenged and your throat can relax till you are ready to speak. Always remember not to get into conversation which is already provoking, you don’t want to say something you will regret later!

New Year and Revised Heart Chakra

Every year you want a resolution, something that will actually motivate you and make you happy when accomplished. Admit it though that most of the times, something happens out of nowhere and in the end of the year you haven’t accomplished your resolution. How about this year you just let yourself feeling free to do what you want to do? Keep in mind that by having a simple thought, let’s say that you want to lose weight, you have actually programmed your subconsciousness to work on that while you are busy all day. Though as much as you want to work on yourself, you need “real” people around you with good intentions, who really care about you as a person.

You cannot choose your family members, your coworkers but you do choose your friends. You will call your best friend at night crying when your ex broke up with you through facebook. You will ask her clothing advice when you go shopping together. There are though times you wish you never met her. She’s mean, she mistreats you but you feel that you have no one else around you. So you stay in that friendship knowing that you are not satisfied by the energy exchange, you feel that you keep giving and you take nothing back.

This new year though, how about giving your heart chakra a good cleansing? It will hurt but trust me that in the end you will feel much better. Meditate, walk outside, go to the park or a way that suits you better, you definitely need a space to relax, to think with clear mind. Start working with your heart chakra, see who has a place in your heart and who doesn’t. If your fear of being lonely stops you, it’s not an excuse when your “friends” will just be like energy vampires sucking your energies and your time. If that means that you won’t have any of your old friends, then remember that you can always meet new interesting people.

Remember that sometimes you meet people and you feel connected right away to them. You can talk hours and hours as you keep telling them “I feel like knowing you for years”. This is actually true as you pretty much remember them from past lives. This could be a good thing and a bad at the same time. You actually found your real friend, the one with whom you used to hang around in many past lives. Though you may find a person you knew and harmed you but your soul remembers their energies, therefore you are around them. So while doing your heart chakra cleansing, always recognize your friends’ energy imprint!