A couple years ago you met this gorgeous guy, you fell instantly in love with him as you started dating frequently. You asked advice from your friends and they told you to be careful on what you say, on what you do cos you don’t want him to get the wrong idea of you. Then you read a bunch of articles around net how the first dates should be. Then you bought this magazine since most girls consider it the best for love advice. The days go by and you have created a stable wall and some more barriers around you.
Now you do feel safe to be around him. A date after a date, a year after a year and a common decision to live with him in the same house. It’s the man you dreamed. It’s what you always wanted, to share the same apartment with a person who understand you completely, who treats you like a queen. The first months seem like a fairytale. The next ones start feeling like you try hard to climb on a mountain.
Now the secrets start taking place and create another wall between you and him. You don’t lie to him yet this distance is getting bigger. The fights lead nowhere lately and you don’t know why. That night you yell at him “You don’t know who I am!” and he replies “I thought I knew you. I don’t know who you are anymore.”. He slams the door and leaves you behind bursting into tears. What happened? Why he left you?
You should better ask yourself “Did he ever know me as person? Did I ever give him a chance?” and then remember how you wanted to be the perfect girlfriend for him. Remember now how you created your beautiful and stable wall. Remember how you never told him so many things about you cos you thought he would never like you. How can you be with someone if you cannot be yourself? How can you build a relationship based on a fake image you project?
Trust yourself, love yourself, start listening more carefully to that little voice inside you. Next time you go on a date, don’t ask for advice. Let your intuition lead you. If it was not the right choice, at least it was yours and only yours. Above all be real, the person who will be around you, he will accept you for who you are not for who you make him think that you are. Honesty is a strong base for a beautiful relationship. Just go for it!
“Earth is a very special case in the cosmos. It is honestly the most beautiful planet we have ever witnessed in all our experience regressing our past lives as well as others. Earth has a very unique spirit about it; it truly is a special gem among the stars of our galaxy and even beyond that.” It was the last sentence you read in the big book of Cosmos before you wake up. The alarm rings, you have to rush for your work. While you are in your car, you get stuck as usual in traffic. You grab your big map to let your mind travel a bit.
Many times you do it as you see yourself traveling in other countries. “All of these races were seeded here on Earth from their home planets and realms together all over the planet’s surface. This is where all our society’s cultures come from: the cosmos. We are all starseeds on this planet; no one began here on Earth, we were all bought here by our cosmic ancestors or we are them.” These words come on your head as you shiver. You close the map fast as you arrive at work.
You expected this day to be normal as the other ones. What is normal in the end? Normal as how society wants us to fit in it? Who made these standards? That girl in the office is very short and everyone is giving her the looks. Discrimination which is being silently supported. Maybe once she was your friend in another reality, another universe, another planet. When being different was supported. When being unique was a blessing. You give her your hand by looking at her deep in her eyes. You just nod at her in a sense “I’m with you.”
How does it feel to be an ambassador on Earth? How does it feel to bring your own piece of truth on this planet? To show respect towards the nature, the animals and all the ancestors. To protect and be devoted, to be humble and proud, to create life, to be free, to be yourself. I reach my hand out to you. Will you take my hand? Will you walk with me? I’m a teacher. I’m a student. Show me your culture and I will show you mine.Friends forever! Forever and ever!
“Take the lessons you’ve learned and move on” my friend Diana said today which gave to me and many people food for thought. What happens though when we can’t find happiness and we feel stuck into a negative situation? Do you feel that you are stuck on your path? Do you feel that your past is more important than your future? Do you feel that there is “something” that has you hooked and you can’t move forward? It’s a common situation for many people, they feel trapped but at the same time they are not willing to get out of the situation.
“We constantly create energetic connections known as energy ‘cords’. Energy cords are created in linear form connecting one energy point to the next. Just like the creation of a line, the origin of linear connection can be on either side. The intent of energetic cords are usually bad rather than good because these cords are the way needy souls sap energy out of another’ s physically and/or spiritually. But there are good energy cord forms, like the root of a tree or the spine of our energy bodies; and just like cosmic energy, energy cords can travel infinitely in both directions following the duality of its creation.”
So what exactly is happening to you? Let’s say that you have this relationship with your ex boyfriend, which is usually “on” and “off”. You really want to be happy but you can’t move on to the next relationship. Consciously you tried everything but subconsciously you have more than one reasons to feel connected to him. He was the one who was there for you when you were sick. He brought you flowers although it was not Valentine’s Day. You had amazing vacation on that beautiful island. Though he’s grumpy. Sometimes he abused you and you still have the mark on your body. You secretly call this the “mark of his love”.
He’s on a similar situation with you. He can’t let it go and he’s stuck too. It seems that he’s with another girl but you know that he’s not happy. You want to cut this energetic connection, this cord between you and him. Keep in mind that it can be more than one energy cords, different for every chakra. Some people say “Just take a knife and cut the cord” but let me ask you this; how easy is to cut a cord between a mother and a child? When we do have relationship with people for that long, they are our “family”. How many times you have called your best friend sister?
Before you cut any cords, make sure what kind of karmic relationship you have with your boyfriend or any other person with whom you have these issues. Past life regression is a great way of understanding problems like that before you start cutting the energy cords. If you just try to cut the cords without knowing what happened in the past, it’s pretty much what happens in the movies “the blue or the red wire?”.
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Do you remember all these conversations you had with your friends about spirituality and past lives? You were in doubt since you didn’t have a personal experience on that topic. That “something” never happened in your life, that ultimate moment of enlightenment that would change your life forever. Though you do know that you have these terrible issues with your partner. You want to break up but then you feel clingy to him. Well this has nothing to do with spirituality right? It’s just you, him and an issue that no one else can understand. Only these sleepless nights can feel your pain and a big “Why?” keeps popping up.
Then your best friend suggests that you should try a past life regression. You hesitate but in the end, what you have to lose? Your partner was your husband in that life, you had a bad relationship cos you fell in love in the middle of war, you got pregnant and then you had to abort the child. You refuse to believe but yet you feel your body responding to the reading. Your body starts hurting as if it wants to break free. You start crying hard and you keep shaking your head in disbelief at the same time.
In this lifetime as humans we regress specific parts of our past lives. You are here too to remember, to fix a past life issue, to learn and relearn, to understand and set yourself free. The people who are around you, they have been there before, helping you or trying to harm you. The questions you have to ask yourself is “Why should I repeat this specific things in this lifetime? What’s my lesson?”. A process that won’t be easy but it will be your 180 degree change. Are you ready for this big step? Are you ready to face the deepest parts of your soul? Are you ready to dive and discover big truths? Are you ready to know the real You?
So after thinking a lot, you realized that you have a couple important people in your life who inspire, love you and believe in you. You may also find that one person who changed your life completely and you are so grateful. Positive strong energy is coming out from all these persons, you can’t feel otherwise than blessed in your life. I’m sure you have thought that all these people bring the best side out of you. Without them, you wouldn’t reach that far in life. Keep in mind that this is only one side of the coin. How about the other one?
Yes, I’m talking about the people who made you cry, who broke your heart, who made you think back then that life only brings pain. It’s just the past right? Yet again think how much influence these people had on you. The experience is the outcome of the pain and suffering. Therefore you are wiser. Therefore you can make better decisions now. You may think that you were a fool back then but look at you today. “I won’t make the same mistake again”, you say to people when they ask you for advice. When back then you thought that you are worthless, that you will only run after people for advice. Now look at you today.
You are the one who is giving advice to people with similar issues. It’s when you realize that maybe the most important person in your life was your worst enemy. How many times you closed your eyes and wished the worst for this person? Now how many times you are willing to thank them? Yes thank them as for forgiving them, it’s another story. It needs a lot of understanding and knowledge of the situation so as to forgive someone. If you just do it out of pity, then don’t even bother. Focus on the lesson you learned and move on!