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The dark side of Your Moon

We all have a dark side or better a side of ourselves that we didn’t know it exists. On a big emotional pressure and tension such as a fight or when we have lost control by drinking alcohol for example, then you see this “monster” coming out. You don’t recognize yourself and you are scared that you will push people away with this behavior. Well not really, you are more scared of dealing with this part of yourself. If you are wondering how this happened to you, think logically all the moments that caused you pain in the past. Someone broke your heart, the bad relationship with your parents, the boss who keeps telling you that you are not good enough for the job and so on. You don’t want to deal with these issues cos it hurts. It makes total sense but think now what you do. All these little moments are being piled up. They start forming and create a part of yourself who is completely negative. Consciously you are able to control it or silence it but there will be moments that you will lose control.

You can’t do otherwise but to deal with the “monster”. You may have a hard time to deal with that but trust me it will be the best decision you ever made. A simple way to start solving the puzzle, it’s to write down all the things that happened to you till now. Then categorize them according to how much they have effected you. Start with the most hurtful ones, work on your chakras by cleansing them and then move to the next one. You have heard that our worst enemies are ourselves. It’s true when you realize how little you know yourselves while you demand others at the same time to understand you. It’s not your fault but yet you can start working on that. Don’t let fear keep you back, have faith and put all the love on yourself. Are you ready to deal with it?

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Priority Check List

Your daily life is so stressful that it makes you forget which are your real priorities. When you open your agenda, there are so many appointments, needless to say that you have to meet your best friend too. It doesn’t take much time to feel your stress level getting even higher as your frustration is obvious. The only thing you need is to calm down, drink some water, play some relaxing music and if you feel a bit better, meditate. Don’t you think that it’s time to revise your priorities? Everything seems important but it’s not if think about it. How shopping for clothes is as important as a business meeting? A priority list is essential and before you start deciding which days you want to do specific things, just decide with clear mind which things should be important right now in your life.

Use red pen for the extremely important and green for the less important ones. When the list is done,  it’s when you can start distributing the priorities to the days of the week. You can work on that daily, weekly or monthly according to your needs. What you will notice and it’s very important, is that you will have less stress but most important, you can find time for yourself now. When it was the last time you enjoyed bubble bath with relaxing music, candles and your favorite drink without having to jump out in half an hour cos you have something important to do? Whatever you do, keep in mind that are more important than anything else!

Do you accomplish the goals for you or for others?

Do you remember when you got awarded at school and you were so glad that your “enemies” were jealous? Or when you got promoted and you called your mom to announce it to her cos she never believed that you would make it there on the first place? The fact that you don’t want to break up cos your friends will consider you a fail since he’s successful and handsome? The biggest question here is, the things you do in life, is it for boosting your ego for you as a person or for showing off to others? This kind of behavior usually shows up when your ego is hurt, when people don’t consider you good enough to accomplish stuff in life. Yet you are there to fight and do your best. You have nothing to prove to no one except yourself. The high standards should be yours not made by other people. Don’t let others to pull you into their game and test you if you can make it. The main reason of your stress has to do with all these.

You want to get out of this situation though but you wonder how. It’s time to work on your solar plexus and your sacral chakra. It’s time to work on your ego and your emotions, on how these two are entangled. Go back to your childhood and see what happened there. Did this has to do with your parents, school or friends? What exactly happened? Keep in mind that there are usually words that trigger this reaction. For example if your friends used to call you “worm”, every time you hear this word, you feel uneasy cos it brings up the specific memory. There are though moments that you consciously blocked out, you never wanted to remember that this happened. So instead you replaced them with new ones. To get through your emotional blockage, it needs you to revise your childhood again and again. Yellow clothes and accessories will help you with the solar plexus energies and your healing process!

Black and white – Pop the Balance bubble

One of the common tips for interview is the black and white outfit, since it makes you look professional. Professional in other words means balanced, your employer will get these vibes from you and if your questions are the expected ones, you have a place in their company. So how this balance works with the colors? The black absorbs the energies of the environment and people while white is reflecting everything. If you want an easy example on how the color black works, you can find it here and for white use the opposite example. Chic and classy is being defined again by the combination of these two colors, so simple and so effective at the same time. What happens though when you want to enhance creative energies coming out of this balance? By adding color to this combination through make up or accessories.

Depending on the color, the energies from your chakras are popping out giving a specific impression. Here you can find all the positive traits of the chakras and how the colors work. For example if you wear black and white outfit for an interview, avoid to wear orange, you will give them the impression that you are emotional, so this will get interpreted that in the future you may turn to be a drama queen. If you add red though, make sure that it’s not too much – avoid red lipstick cos it shows aggressiveness through your speech – and wear a red ring which will show them that you are grounded, you know what you want and that they can count on you. Again though, it depends the nature of the job, if you are going to work on a store as a sale assistant, make sure that on the first interview, you wear yellow. It shows your willingness to work and being energetic the whole day. One last but not least to keep in mind is to know your strength and weaknesses and empower them with the specific color!

Life is a School with many Classes

Do you remember when you were going to school, you had to wake up early, you had to face the same teachers, same annoying classes but you had to find a real reason to stay happy? It was not for the friends, how many times you had to get rid of them cos they back-stabbed you? It was not for your crush either, he barely paid attention to you. It was that class you always loved to attend. It made you feel different, alive, you wished you could go every day there. After being done with school, years later, you had to find a job and do something with your life. Some times you question yourself if you are on the right path, if you are doing the right thing. You don’t really have that much time for these questions, your busy life will give you little time for fun, going out with a couple of friends for drinks or just have that awesome date. School all over again but in a different sense now, you are the one who decides about the teachers, the classes, the friends and the boyfriend.

Have you taken advantage of this privilege yet? Don’t let your  life being lead mostly by random factors, use all the tools you have in your hands to make it better. Start a new activity with the teacher you really believe in, have a real friend around you, date the guy who really cares about you. Pick the path you want to in your life, listen to your inner voice and do what you feel like doing. So many lessons out there to learn, so many classes and so many people to interact but now you do have the choice. You know it won’t be easy but the journey is more worthy than the destination. Don’t doubt a moment that you can achieve great things, don’t let your insecurities to take over. Life is a big school and you are a very talented student!

Once I had a Dream

When you were a kid you always had dreams for the future, you wanted to become a dancer, a singer, a pilot, a painter but your parents taught you otherwise. “If you don’t have a good job, you will end up begging for a couple of pennies on the streets”, you dad said and your mom added “Your future is important, how you will support your kids and your family?”, so they made you get locked in the room and think. Being older than you, they should know better, right? As years went boy, you became a good mother, a nice family around you to be proud of, a job that gives you enough for vacation but… There is a big BUT here, sometimes before you go to sleep, it’s in your mind “What if I had a big garden with many animals? What if I made handmade stuff for living?” and then you just fall asleep in that thought.

It’s never too late to pursue your dreams, you can still take classes, you can still be creative, you can still do the things you always wanted. The fear of the unknown, the fear of getting out of your box keeps you back but give yourself a chance to prove what you can do. It’s not about the money, about fame, about others, it’s about your soul pleasure. No words can describe how happy you will feel after expressing yourself, how fulfilled as a person you will be, how your life will start changing in a way you never expected. You may have heard other people ‘s stories but you still hesitate. This is how I was too before I start this blog, before I decide to express myself fully as my only thoughts was about judgement, fear, hesitation. Thank you all so much for supporting me, I really appreciate it!