Tag Archive | healing

Do you accomplish the goals for you or for others?

Do you remember when you got awarded at school and you were so glad that your “enemies” were jealous? Or when you got promoted and you called your mom to announce it to her cos she never believed that you would make it there on the first place? The fact that you don’t want to break up cos your friends will consider you a fail since he’s successful and handsome? The biggest question here is, the things you do in life, is it for boosting your ego for you as a person or for showing off to others? This kind of behavior usually shows up when your ego is hurt, when people don’t consider you good enough to accomplish stuff in life. Yet you are there to fight and do your best. You have nothing to prove to no one except yourself. The high standards should be yours not made by other people. Don’t let others to pull you into their game and test you if you can make it. The main reason of your stress has to do with all these.

You want to get out of this situation though but you wonder how. It’s time to work on your solar plexus and your sacral chakra. It’s time to work on your ego and your emotions, on how these two are entangled. Go back to your childhood and see what happened there. Did this has to do with your parents, school or friends? What exactly happened? Keep in mind that there are usually words that trigger this reaction. For example if your friends used to call you “worm”, every time you hear this word, you feel uneasy cos it brings up the specific memory. There are though moments that you consciously blocked out, you never wanted to remember that this happened. So instead you replaced them with new ones. To get through your emotional blockage, it needs you to revise your childhood again and again. Yellow clothes and accessories will help you with the solar plexus energies and your healing process!

Turn back time or turn your back on time?

You never expected that you would wish to turn back time, not only to fix things but to go back in the life you had as a kid or teenager. All these daily life problems make you wanting to go back, to forget everything and be carefree. Do you remember though what you kept telling your parents when you were younger? “I want to grow faster to leave this house, I want my freedom!” If you feel that not much has changed yet, that you think you started a new life while your past keeps making you wanting to go back, it’s when you know that it’s time to fix your past once and forever. Many people tell you to turn your back to what happened in the past. They will tell you that you need a fresh start without pain, without worries and no drama. If you just skip your past, then it will keep popping up in moments when you need to take serious decisions.

Let me give you a simple example. Let’s say that you want to get married to a guy you are together for two years and lately you feel that he’s cheating on you. Then you remember that your ex never cheated on you but you did have that sexual chemistry. You think that you overrated the current relationship, maybe it’s time to call your ex, date or something. Just having some fun even before you will fully commit to a guy, a guy you are not really sure if he’s the right one. Now you see what happened? You haven’t solved the issues with your ex boyfriend and yet you want to move forward to a marriage. Face your past, accept the pain, heal and move on. Fear will try to keep you back but you are stronger than that, yes?

Don’t let the Nightmares take over

Nightmares or dreams that give you a really bad feeling when you wake up could have a deeper meaning than you may think. Keep in mind that when your body is resting your consciousness is doesn’t sleep, on the other hand all your defense mechanisms are down. In your daily life, especially when you are hanging around with people, you keep a part of yourself hidden even from your own self. By going to sleep, there is no reason to protect yourself from the others so the subconsciousness veil is being lifted. You have everything it needs for a good sleep: relaxation music, dim lights and a great bubble bath. The next morning, you just realized that you had again a nightmare which you pushed away another time. Needless to say that the reoccurring dreams are the worst as if you are locked on a movie and your dream reality is being repeated. Is it something drastic that can solve this mess and you actually enjoy a great night sleep?

If you haven’t done it till now, keep a dream journal and write the dream down right after you wake up. You will see you get the specific feelings from some dreams, this means that they are on the same category and they should be examined together. Dreams usually have to do with things that happened to you in the past, things that bother you daily and memories that are stored from another lifetime. Depending on the dream, start deciphering it by yourself, you will see how your dreams in the end are not so far away from your reality. I’m not talking about your 3d reality but your multidimensional one. You are more than what you think you are. You will also notice that when you start realizing what is going on in your dreams, you will instantly take control of them. Accept the emotions and fears, this is the first thing for healing. If you want to learn more about past lives take a look here or contact me !