Tag Archive | happy

When opinions count more than you think

Today you went to the grocery store and these ladies gave you the look of death. They started whispering and giggling, as you passed by you heard them talking about the guy who keeps coming to your apartment. It’s funny how they say that you should get married and stop being promiscuous. The funnier thing is that they have no clue that it’s your brother. In the end, it’s none of their business, yet they would do anything today to see you frown and have sad face.

If you think a bit about it, their attitude shows that they are jealous of you. They wish they had that chance with a man who cares about them and makes them feel good.  Since they can’t have it, they are mad and when they see someone else happy, it’s when they try to do anything to see that happiness being broken into pieces. By keeping that in mind, you save your sanity for the day.

It happens everywhere, at home, at work, even with the social transportation. Someone will whisper something or they will stare at you cos they don’t like the way you look. If you feel offended and uncomfortable, it means that you don’t accept yourself for who you are and what you do. Don’t be afraid to be unique, don’t be afraid to be different. It’s your right and no one can take it away from you.

As for all these opinions, you have power to mute them in your mind. Don’t let them poison you. You know better what is good for you. Love yourself, be yourself, be happy and smile always!

Don’t let stress take your smile away

Do you remember when you were a kid and most of the times you were smiling, laughing and being carefree? Do you remember how many times your parents told you when you starting growing up more that it’s time to get life seriously? Do you remember when something silly happened in the class, you giggled and then you got kicked out cos you shouldn’t do it? So many things to remember as you realize that your smiles used to be real. They came straight from your soul as all your body felt the happiness with a simple smile. You came to a point nowadays that you realized that many times you smile cos you have to. You don’t really mean it but it will solve many issues or even prevent a fight. Many nights you watch fun movies that make you cheer up and laugh. When the movie is done, the feeling of loneliness is harder. As the days go by, the daily routine sucks you up on black hole full of stress. You need that genuine smile back. You also need to realize how your body works when the smile comes straight from your soul.

When you have a genuine, a real moment of happiness then it will be reflected right away to your chakras  as an expression to your soul. A full body experience that will give you an instant pleasure that can’t be compared to anything else. When you come to a point that you laugh cos someone said a joke and you feel like laughing cos either everyone else did or you don’t want the person feel bad, then here you have rationalizing laughter. This comes straight from your head chakra, your third eye as you need to find a reason to laugh. The more you are on a stressful environment or lifestyle, the more you will observe that the times you laugh will be less and less spontaneous and genuine. If you are wondering what you need to do to fix it, the answer is energy work. This can be accomplished through self expression and mindset of freedom. You may want to laugh on the silliest things, you may want to go on a playground when no one is around, just remember all the things you did as a kid and made you happy. Smile again, feel and be happy!

Big Saturday Smiles with Best Moment Award!

My friend Ute  nominated me with a new blog award, the Best Moment Award. Ute’s blog is one of my favorite ones, she knows how to touch someone’s heart with simple but meaningful words. I’m so thankful of this award but mostly for Ute’s friendship which means so much to me. When I started my blog, my thoughts were on how to help people yet I never had in mind that I would actually feel so close to fellow bloggers. This is how it goes though, you can’t predict life but you can enjoy the little moments. The unexpected ones which are the best, the ones that can change a lot in our lives. “Your life is a blessing. You are the ‘now’ “, my husband Zed wrote yesterday on the Psychic Nest and I can’t agree more with what he said.

Awarding the people who live in the moment,
The noble who write and capture the best in life,
The bold who reminded us what really mattered –
Savoring the experience of quality time.

So here are my nominees:

http://terrytreks.wordpress.com/

http://awaketolife.wordpress.com/

http://lijiun.wordpress.com/

http://simpletombornhigh.com/

http://awakeningtothedance.com/

 

Get motivated and change your Life

You like it or not, changes are unavoidable in your life but how well you are prepared of them? Root chakra defines your readiness level, how well you have worked on your red / black energies. A friend asks you to travel with him on another country and right away you hesitate. What is it that makes you hold back? You won’t admit that it’s fear since it’s just a trip, right? Though you have to understand that all human beings are afraid of different things according to their experiences. Don’t feel uncomfortable when you realize that you are scared of a thing that maybe someone else doesn’t. Your consciousness and emotional level is different from the people around you, in order to fight the fear you must admit that the fear is there.

Meditation, past life regression and  a lot of personal work must be done so as the fear will be eliminated. Don’t expect from one day to another that your root chakra will be healed. Just make sure that you are ready to fight your “demons”, it doesn’t  matter if they are big or small. You definitely know that they won’t let you live your life. A blog or a diary will help you a lot with your progress, you can go back anytime and see how much your life has changed. Don’t let anything to keep you back from living a happy life, you know you deserve the best!

 

New Year and Revised Heart Chakra

Every year you want a resolution, something that will actually motivate you and make you happy when accomplished. Admit it though that most of the times, something happens out of nowhere and in the end of the year you haven’t accomplished your resolution. How about this year you just let yourself feeling free to do what you want to do? Keep in mind that by having a simple thought, let’s say that you want to lose weight, you have actually programmed your subconsciousness to work on that while you are busy all day. Though as much as you want to work on yourself, you need “real” people around you with good intentions, who really care about you as a person.

You cannot choose your family members, your coworkers but you do choose your friends. You will call your best friend at night crying when your ex broke up with you through facebook. You will ask her clothing advice when you go shopping together. There are though times you wish you never met her. She’s mean, she mistreats you but you feel that you have no one else around you. So you stay in that friendship knowing that you are not satisfied by the energy exchange, you feel that you keep giving and you take nothing back.

This new year though, how about giving your heart chakra a good cleansing? It will hurt but trust me that in the end you will feel much better. Meditate, walk outside, go to the park or a way that suits you better, you definitely need a space to relax, to think with clear mind. Start working with your heart chakra, see who has a place in your heart and who doesn’t. If your fear of being lonely stops you, it’s not an excuse when your “friends” will just be like energy vampires sucking your energies and your time. If that means that you won’t have any of your old friends, then remember that you can always meet new interesting people.

Remember that sometimes you meet people and you feel connected right away to them. You can talk hours and hours as you keep telling them “I feel like knowing you for years”. This is actually true as you pretty much remember them from past lives. This could be a good thing and a bad at the same time. You actually found your real friend, the one with whom you used to hang around in many past lives. Though you may find a person you knew and harmed you but your soul remembers their energies, therefore you are around them. So while doing your heart chakra cleansing, always recognize your friends’ energy imprint!