Tag Archive | friendship

The Knowledge of an Earth Spirit

Earth is a very special case in the cosmos. It is honestly the most beautiful planet we have ever witnessed in all our experience regressing our past lives as well as others. Earth has a very unique spirit about it; it truly is a special gem among the stars of our galaxy and even beyond that.” It was the last sentence you read in the big book of Cosmos before you wake up. The alarm rings, you have to rush for your work. While you are in your car, you get stuck as usual in traffic. You grab your big map to let your mind travel a bit.

Many times you do it as you see yourself traveling in other countries. “All of these races were seeded here on Earth from their home planets and realms together all over the planet’s surface. This is where all our society’s cultures come from: the cosmos. We are all starseeds on this planet; no one began here on Earth, we were all bought here by our cosmic ancestors or we are them.” These words come on your head as you shiver. You close the map fast as you arrive at work.

You expected this day to be normal as the other ones. What is normal in the end? Normal as how society wants us to fit in it? Who made these standards? That girl in the office is very short and everyone is giving her the looks. Discrimination which is being silently supported. Maybe once she was your friend in another reality, another universe, another planet. When being different was supported. When being unique was a blessing. You give her your hand by looking at her deep in her eyes. You just nod at her in a sense “I’m with you.”

How does it feel to be an ambassador on Earth? How does it feel to bring your own piece of truth on this planet? To show respect towards the nature, the animals and all the ancestors. To protect and be devoted, to be humble and proud, to create life, to be free, to be yourself. I reach my hand out to you. Will you take my hand? Will you walk with me? I’m a teacher. I’m a student. Show me your culture and I will show you mine.Friends forever! Forever and ever!

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Big Saturday Smiles with Best Moment Award!

My friend Ute  nominated me with a new blog award, the Best Moment Award. Ute’s blog is one of my favorite ones, she knows how to touch someone’s heart with simple but meaningful words. I’m so thankful of this award but mostly for Ute’s friendship which means so much to me. When I started my blog, my thoughts were on how to help people yet I never had in mind that I would actually feel so close to fellow bloggers. This is how it goes though, you can’t predict life but you can enjoy the little moments. The unexpected ones which are the best, the ones that can change a lot in our lives. “Your life is a blessing. You are the ‘now’ “, my husband Zed wrote yesterday on the Psychic Nest and I can’t agree more with what he said.

Awarding the people who live in the moment,
The noble who write and capture the best in life,
The bold who reminded us what really mattered –
Savoring the experience of quality time.

So here are my nominees:

http://terrytreks.wordpress.com/

http://awaketolife.wordpress.com/

http://lijiun.wordpress.com/

http://simpletombornhigh.com/

http://awakeningtothedance.com/

 

Blooming Heart on Spring

Spring is here as you expected it so much during winter. You feel your head a bit lighter, your heart ready to fly away to the blooming fields, you can’t wait to smell the dazzling smell of the flowers . The sadness of the winter is ready to go, at least how you feel as you want to do major changes along with the spring mood. You feel you are ready to forgive more, to be a little more sensitive than usual like a playful fairy. With a big smile on your face, you call one of your friends, you haven’t talked to her for some time. You ask her if she wants to hang around with you. Next thing you know, she’s asking you for favors. This is how you will prove to her that you are still friends. You frown a bit but you guess it’s fine to do these little favors for her. Days later, you can’t ignore your feelings, how annoyed you are. How can people do that? Maybe you should think twice about the people you are about to approach again. Remember what happened between you two. Why you stopped talking, why you had a fight, why you started keeping your distances.

Some people say that it’s hard for someone to change and if yes, it’s only for some time. The truth is that some people are willing to change and some just want to stay stuck to their physical and emotional routine. Remember that not everyone is on the same page with you. Maybe you are ready for these changes but not everyone around you is. You have felt many time this; to shake someone till they wake up. Yet again don’t forget that some of the people around you, they just want to keep “sleeping”. It’s their right, it’s free will. You are hurt but you have to make your choices. Changes many times hurt cos we leave people behind. It always was like that and it will always be. Instead of trying to pull them with you, show them how things change for you with your own behavior. Let your inner beautiful tree flourish and let the scent have an effect on people around you. Some will run away cos it will be too strong to handle. Some others will embrace it and they will want more! Happy Spring my dear friend!

When happiness stops being a drug

Years come and go and you still try to define happiness in your life. All these little things that make you smile, all these moments that truly gave you a taste of happiness and this one guy who means the world to you. When you met him, you had a lot of fun, heartwarming conversations, walking next to the seashore and the most important; he made you smile, he gave your life a different meaning. Your face was shining and every time you talked with your friends, you kept telling them that he’s the one, you are so happy with him. One day he shows up and he asks you to break up with him. You pushed him a lot he said. You wanted the perfect man he said. He made you happy while he was not he said. You stay there frozen, so numb as he wished you all the best in your life. He closed the door as you kept staying there numb. He took the happiness with him.

The next months, you were depressed. How could he do that to you? You blame him but keep in mind that you hold responsibility too. How can you rely on someone for making you happy? This means that before you meet him, you never really felt what happiness is. It starts from within and if you keep searching it outside of yourself in the means of a thing or person then it won’t take long that it will turn into your drug. If a show on TV is the only thing that makes you happy, then it’s when you know that you made it your happiness drug. When the show stops, you will become depressed. What’s your inner spark? What really makes you happy? No one is perfect and happiness is far away from perfection. It’s a big journey and you are ready to enjoy it!

Roommates – How an awesome friendship can end up being a disaster

You have talked with your best friend so many times about how it would be fantastic that you two can be in the same apartment. Well you do share so many things, you laugh with the same jokes, you have supported each other so many times. After all these conversations and plans, you finally find this pretty apartment with all the comforts you need and you are ready for epic nights of fun. The first 2 months everything seems to be fine but a bit uncomfortable sometimes. She doesn’t dry her feet when she comes out of the bathroom, therefore you find water all over the floor. After being done with dinner, she will never wash the dishes. The bills give her a headache so she expects you to deal with it and her only give you the money. The worst is when she has issues with money and considers it normal for you to pay everything. Has a real nightmare just started? Your friend is not what you thought she is? What happened to her? What happened to you?

Every night before you sleep, you keep thinking about all these questions but you realize that it was not her decision, you both agreed on being roommates. You want to have a fight with her cos she’s your best friend. Now what? Well your friendship is being tested like a boyfriend – girlfriend relationship. You live in the same place which means that there should be some rules so as everything works fine. Have a schedule for what you both need, for example no intimate moments with your boyfriend in your bedroom when she’s in the apartment. Don’t make the rules by giving each other the look “i know that you are gonna do it and this rule is for you” cos in the end you will end up fighting and damaging your friendship. Keep the connection you had before you move in together, talk about things you love, about your issues and make that bond between you stronger. You should feel lucky for having each other, don’t let routine ruin your friendship!

I “heart” you green – Happy Valentine’s Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day and a big doze of green and no red at all this year! If you are wondering why you should avoid red, a couple realizations may persuade you. Red is the color of the root chakra that it’s connected to fear, grounding, changes, detachment, fragility and so on. So instead of celebrating love this day, you are afraid that your boyfriend may break up with you, that he won’t get the right gift for you and if you are alone, you feel so fragile and you feel do detached from everyone out there who has a relationship. Apart from that, red makes the heart racing faster by making you feel more stressed. Today just try to incorporate green into whatever you do. Green is the color of the heart chakra, bringing energies of love, understanding and friendship.

When you go out with your date, focus on the earth colors such as brown, green, grey or ivory. You will notice that these colors will create a different atmosphere and you will radiate it to your surroundings. Your boyfriend will feel the difference, you will notice that he will be more open to talk about things he never said before. Apart from that, buy him an Eco-friendly gift that will be different that ones you usually buy every year. Have a wonderful time and if you are single this day, just stay away from anything that will create unnecessary drama or tears. Just be yourself and enjoy!

Do you accomplish the goals for you or for others?

Do you remember when you got awarded at school and you were so glad that your “enemies” were jealous? Or when you got promoted and you called your mom to announce it to her cos she never believed that you would make it there on the first place? The fact that you don’t want to break up cos your friends will consider you a fail since he’s successful and handsome? The biggest question here is, the things you do in life, is it for boosting your ego for you as a person or for showing off to others? This kind of behavior usually shows up when your ego is hurt, when people don’t consider you good enough to accomplish stuff in life. Yet you are there to fight and do your best. You have nothing to prove to no one except yourself. The high standards should be yours not made by other people. Don’t let others to pull you into their game and test you if you can make it. The main reason of your stress has to do with all these.

You want to get out of this situation though but you wonder how. It’s time to work on your solar plexus and your sacral chakra. It’s time to work on your ego and your emotions, on how these two are entangled. Go back to your childhood and see what happened there. Did this has to do with your parents, school or friends? What exactly happened? Keep in mind that there are usually words that trigger this reaction. For example if your friends used to call you “worm”, every time you hear this word, you feel uneasy cos it brings up the specific memory. There are though moments that you consciously blocked out, you never wanted to remember that this happened. So instead you replaced them with new ones. To get through your emotional blockage, it needs you to revise your childhood again and again. Yellow clothes and accessories will help you with the solar plexus energies and your healing process!