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You, your broken heart and a hidden truth

A couple years ago you met this gorgeous guy, you fell instantly in love with him as you started dating frequently. You asked advice from your friends and they told you to be careful on what you say, on what you do cos you don’t want him to get the wrong idea of you. Then you read a bunch of articles around net how the first dates should be. Then you bought this magazine since most girls consider it the best for love advice. The days go by and you have created a stable wall and some more barriers around you.

Now you do feel safe to be around him. A date after a date, a year after a year and a common decision to live with him in the same house. It’s the man you dreamed. It’s what you always wanted, to share the same apartment with a person who understand you completely, who treats you like a queen. The first months seem like a fairytale. The next ones start feeling like you try hard to climb on a mountain.

Now the secrets start taking place and create another wall between you and him. You don’t lie to him yet this distance is getting bigger. The fights lead nowhere lately and you don’t know why. That night you yell at him “You don’t know who I am!” and he replies “I thought I knew you. I don’t know who you are anymore.”. He slams the door and leaves you behind bursting into tears. What happened? Why he left you?

You should better ask yourself “Did he ever know me as person? Did I ever give him a chance?” and then remember how you wanted to be the perfect girlfriend for him. Remember now how you created your beautiful and stable wall. Remember how you never told him so many things about you cos you thought he would never like you. How can you be with someone if you cannot be yourself? How can you build a relationship based on a fake image you project?

Trust yourself, love yourself, start listening more carefully to that little voice inside you. Next time you go on a date, don’t ask for advice. Let your intuition lead you. If it was not the right choice, at least it was yours and only yours. Above all be real, the person who will be around you, he will accept you for who you are not for who you make him think that you are. Honesty is a strong base for a beautiful relationship. Just go for it!

Parties, Crowds, Energy Vampires and You

During the week, you anticipate for the weekend to come, to get out and have fun on a club with your friends. Have you noticed what usually happens to your body when you come back home after being in a party or a crowded place these days? If you are not a person who drinks a lot and suffers from hangover but you still feel wasted, tired and drained, then it’s time to think twice about going back. Or maybe not. Your friends will think that you are weird. Some of them will say that you are not social even. The question is “Do you care?” but the most important is “Do you really know what is going on when you are in a big crowd?”.

Nowadays movies and TV shows have brainwashed us with vampires, werewolves and all these “What if” in your head “What if they were real in this world”. The thing that these shows won’t tell you is that actually they are real. More real than you think. Not in the sense of them drinking blood but on an energetic level. You will notice when you are around these people that they want your constant attention; it can be your mother or even your best friend. Or that famous singer who gives that big performance on stage. It doesn’t matter who is it but the energy they carry. Or better the energies they do take from people.

How do energy vampires “work”? Why in the end you should pay attention to them? Their desire for attention makes their energies to shift into cords. Imagine now how a spider works. She looks for her prey while creating all this big web around her and whoever gets stuck, he’s doomed. The same thing happens on an energetic level with the energy vampires. They create their “web” and they drain people from their energies. You can see on their faces an euphoric expression, being “high” without being on drugs, being more energetic while you and the people around them feeling more and more tired.

They always pick the right “victims”, people they know that their energies have high frequencies. If that specific person keeps calling you every Saturday to go clubbing without you knowing him that well and you just say yes only cos you have no one to hang around, then you do know that you are the “chosen one”. The best solution to this problem is to wear as much white as you can on your clothes and accessories so as to reflect their energy attacks. Be aware, protect your energy field by creating energy shields and go out now. You still want to go for clubbing and this time you know this; no more unwanted headaches, no more draining, no more being tired!

180 Degrees to Change your Life

Do you remember all these conversations you had with your friends about spirituality and past lives? You were in doubt since you didn’t have a personal experience on that topic. That “something” never happened in your life, that ultimate moment of enlightenment that would change your life forever. Though you do know that you have these terrible issues with your partner. You want to break up but then you feel clingy to him. Well this has nothing to do with spirituality right? It’s just you, him and an issue that no one else can understand. Only these sleepless nights can feel your pain and a big “Why?” keeps popping  up.

Then your best friend suggests that you should try a past life regression. You hesitate but in the end, what you have to lose? Your partner was your husband in that life, you had a bad relationship cos you fell in love in the middle of war, you got pregnant and then you had to abort the child. You refuse to believe but yet you feel your body responding to the reading. Your body starts hurting as if it wants to break free. You start crying hard and you keep shaking your head in disbelief at the same time.

In this lifetime as humans we regress specific parts of our past lives. You are here too to remember, to fix a past life issue, to learn and relearn, to understand and set yourself free. The people who are around you, they have been there before, helping you or trying to harm you. The questions you have to ask yourself is “Why should I repeat this specific things in this lifetime? What’s my lesson?”. A process that won’t be easy but it will be your 180 degree change.  Are you ready for this big step? Are you ready to face the deepest parts of your soul? Are you ready to dive and discover big truths? Are you ready to know the real You?

Why you shouldn’t erase your past

You have the choice to erase one incident from your past, as though it never happened.  Someone gave you a big magical eraser and now you are excited that you will pick that hateful moment in your life and get rid of it once and forever. You don’t need to deal with the pain ever again neither with the avoidance nor with the guilt. That “someone” also told you that your life will change after this but you his words are like whispers in your ears. You wished all these years for this moment and now nothing can stop you. Go ahead and do it. 1…2…3…

With a huge smile and such a relief, you give the magic eraser back to that “someone”, you definitely thank them from the bottom of your heart and you are so excited cos your new life is ahead. You call your best friend to tell her how magic still exists, how you changed your past and how she can do it too if she wishes too hard. With a huge surprise you realize that she doesn’t recognize you on the phone. “Are you crazy? It’s me!”, you almost scream jumping off your chair. She hangs up and you are so frustrated. Maybe she just woke up and she didn’t recognize your voice. Now you go to hug your cat, you need some sort of comfort.

The jumps on you as she scratches your arm. “Ouch! What’s wrong with you!”, you scream at the cat as she scratches the door to get out of the apartment. Maybe she needs some air you think, you open the door, she leaves but she doesn’t come back. You start freaking out, something is so wrong and you feel it! You just decide to go out and take your car for a quick ride. Your car is not there! Immediately you call the police, they come outside your house and they start laughing at you. “Miss, you don’t own a car….”, they leave shaking their heads. What the heck happened? Maybe that “someone” remembers to tell you?

You beg in tear so as him to show up again. It doesn’t take much time as he does. Your voice almost broken cos of crying, you ask him what happened! “Well my dear”, he replies to you as he clears his throat, “you never heard what I told you before you erase that annoying past event. You grab him by the jacket and you demand more answers. “You erased that memory about this painful funeral. You met your best friend there for the first time. A couple years later you bought the cat together when you felt lonely. You asked her advice for the new car you wanted to buy. You changed the past with this simple move. It’s action and reaction, it’s the fundamental law of the universe. Live with the consequences now.”

He left you there hanging with your jaw dropping. You wanted to fix the past and you erased your future. “You have the choice to erase one incident from your past, as though it never happened.” Do you feel like doing it again now? It’s up to you now!

 

Big Saturday Smiles with Best Moment Award!

My friend Ute  nominated me with a new blog award, the Best Moment Award. Ute’s blog is one of my favorite ones, she knows how to touch someone’s heart with simple but meaningful words. I’m so thankful of this award but mostly for Ute’s friendship which means so much to me. When I started my blog, my thoughts were on how to help people yet I never had in mind that I would actually feel so close to fellow bloggers. This is how it goes though, you can’t predict life but you can enjoy the little moments. The unexpected ones which are the best, the ones that can change a lot in our lives. “Your life is a blessing. You are the ‘now’ “, my husband Zed wrote yesterday on the Psychic Nest and I can’t agree more with what he said.

Awarding the people who live in the moment,
The noble who write and capture the best in life,
The bold who reminded us what really mattered –
Savoring the experience of quality time.

So here are my nominees:

http://terrytreks.wordpress.com/

http://awaketolife.wordpress.com/

http://lijiun.wordpress.com/

http://simpletombornhigh.com/

http://awakeningtothedance.com/

 

Blooming Heart on Spring

Spring is here as you expected it so much during winter. You feel your head a bit lighter, your heart ready to fly away to the blooming fields, you can’t wait to smell the dazzling smell of the flowers . The sadness of the winter is ready to go, at least how you feel as you want to do major changes along with the spring mood. You feel you are ready to forgive more, to be a little more sensitive than usual like a playful fairy. With a big smile on your face, you call one of your friends, you haven’t talked to her for some time. You ask her if she wants to hang around with you. Next thing you know, she’s asking you for favors. This is how you will prove to her that you are still friends. You frown a bit but you guess it’s fine to do these little favors for her. Days later, you can’t ignore your feelings, how annoyed you are. How can people do that? Maybe you should think twice about the people you are about to approach again. Remember what happened between you two. Why you stopped talking, why you had a fight, why you started keeping your distances.

Some people say that it’s hard for someone to change and if yes, it’s only for some time. The truth is that some people are willing to change and some just want to stay stuck to their physical and emotional routine. Remember that not everyone is on the same page with you. Maybe you are ready for these changes but not everyone around you is. You have felt many time this; to shake someone till they wake up. Yet again don’t forget that some of the people around you, they just want to keep “sleeping”. It’s their right, it’s free will. You are hurt but you have to make your choices. Changes many times hurt cos we leave people behind. It always was like that and it will always be. Instead of trying to pull them with you, show them how things change for you with your own behavior. Let your inner beautiful tree flourish and let the scent have an effect on people around you. Some will run away cos it will be too strong to handle. Some others will embrace it and they will want more! Happy Spring my dear friend!

Under the Full Moon

As much as you are tired today, you have time for one thing and it’s free; just watch the full moon from your window and enjoy the gorgeous view. Full moons always bring specific energies as they awake part of our consciousness and make us at least for one day to change our views for life. You may feel lunatic tonight but you may feel guilty too. If you are wondering why, take a look at the Weekly Cosmic Forecast  and you will see what I mean. Do you feel like “dark” secrets are about to get revealed? Or do you feel that you can handle alone all this energetic mess? Well, that’s what are friends for, right? Talk to them, let it all out. You will feel instantly relieved and you will have a second opinion about the issues that bother you lately. Release these energies by planning nothing, just let everything flow. If you feel like eating more or having specific cravings, then give in. Your body knows better what it needs and it shouldn’t be ignored. Full moon meditation will help you see within and accept the upcoming energies. Don’t resist to them but become one with them. Become on with yourself. We all do have a dark side, you shouldn’t be ashamed on the way you feel. Feel free and let your dark and light side embrace each other. Don’t you feel better already?