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Feather Inspiration #83

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You, your broken heart and a hidden truth

A couple years ago you met this gorgeous guy, you fell instantly in love with him as you started dating frequently. You asked advice from your friends and they told you to be careful on what you say, on what you do cos you don’t want him to get the wrong idea of you. Then you read a bunch of articles around net how the first dates should be. Then you bought this magazine since most girls consider it the best for love advice. The days go by and you have created a stable wall and some more barriers around you.

Now you do feel safe to be around him. A date after a date, a year after a year and a common decision to live with him in the same house. It’s the man you dreamed. It’s what you always wanted, to share the same apartment with a person who understand you completely, who treats you like a queen. The first months seem like a fairytale. The next ones start feeling like you try hard to climb on a mountain.

Now the secrets start taking place and create another wall between you and him. You don’t lie to him yet this distance is getting bigger. The fights lead nowhere lately and you don’t know why. That night you yell at him “You don’t know who I am!” and he replies “I thought I knew you. I don’t know who you are anymore.”. He slams the door and leaves you behind bursting into tears. What happened? Why he left you?

You should better ask yourself “Did he ever know me as person? Did I ever give him a chance?” and then remember how you wanted to be the perfect girlfriend for him. Remember now how you created your beautiful and stable wall. Remember how you never told him so many things about you cos you thought he would never like you. How can you be with someone if you cannot be yourself? How can you build a relationship based on a fake image you project?

Trust yourself, love yourself, start listening more carefully to that little voice inside you. Next time you go on a date, don’t ask for advice. Let your intuition lead you. If it was not the right choice, at least it was yours and only yours. Above all be real, the person who will be around you, he will accept you for who you are not for who you make him think that you are. Honesty is a strong base for a beautiful relationship. Just go for it!

Inner voice VS “Voices” – Is there any difference in the end?

Some of us we admit it about the voices we hear either to guide us or push us to do “bad things”. Most of us though will talk so much about our inner voice, how we listen to it and how we are tuned with ourselves. After reading and contemplating, you are just confused in the end. Your inner voice many times shifts into these strange voices into your head which sometimes you call them your demons. So it’s when you are wondering if it’s you or someone else. There are many possibilities here, depending on the case. The voices could be the destructive part of yourself with all the  negative traits. It’s usually “activated” when you are in a very bad mood or continuously depressed. These voices could also be memories from a past life and you just regress through them. The sure thing is that these ones don’t intend to hurt you but to remind you something that you have forgotten. It could even simply be distorted voices coming from memories of this lifetime too. The worst case scenario is that these voices are actually connected to spirits outside of yourself.

All the cases can be dangerous but mostly the ones that come from spirits since they tend to manipulate humans. As for these voices coming straight from you, they can be dangerous if they are not identified but it’s easier for you to work with yourself and fix it. The inner good voice will always give you advice on what to do, cos you are the one who knows yourself better than anyone else out there. As for the “bad” voices, the last thing you should do is to ignore them. Your own self is warning you and it needs your help. Don’t let them take over you, write down what you hear and think when they started. Was it a specific incident or something triggered them? The only sure thing is that they don’t come from nowhere. Stay tuned with yourself but mostly love yourself for who you are. Good voices, bad voices, it doesn’t matter cos it’s still you. Accept and love yourself with all your mistakes.  It’s the only thing that matters in the end!

PS: If you need further help, don’t hesitate to contact me or Psychic Nest here or here .