When you can’t find Happiness and you don’t know Why

“Take the lessons you’ve learned and move on” my friend Diana said today which gave to me and many people food for thought. What happens though when we can’t find happiness and we feel stuck into a negative situation? Do you feel that you are stuck on your path? Do you feel that your past is more important than your future? Do you feel that there is “something” that has you hooked and you can’t move forward? It’s a common situation for many people, they feel trapped but at the same time they are not willing to get out of the situation.

We constantly create energetic connections known as energy ‘cords’. Energy cords are created in linear form connecting one energy point to the next. Just like the creation of a line, the origin of linear connection can be on either side. The intent of energetic cords are usually bad rather than good because these cords are the way needy souls sap energy out of another’ s physically and/or spiritually. But there are good energy cord forms, like the root of a tree or the spine of our energy bodies; and just like cosmic energy, energy cords can travel infinitely in both directions following the duality of its creation.”

So what exactly is happening to you? Let’s say that you have this relationship with your ex boyfriend, which is usually “on” and “off”. You really want to be happy but you can’t move on to the next relationship. Consciously you tried everything but subconsciously you have more than one reasons to feel connected to him. He was the one who was there for you when you were sick. He brought you flowers although  it was not Valentine’s Day. You had amazing vacation on that beautiful island. Though he’s grumpy. Sometimes he abused you and you still have the mark on your body. You secretly call this the “mark of his love”.

He’s on a similar situation with you. He can’t let it go and he’s stuck too. It seems that he’s with another girl but you know that he’s not happy. You want to cut this energetic connection, this cord between you and him. Keep in mind that it can be more than one energy cords, different for every chakra. Some people say “Just take a knife and cut the cord” but let me ask you this; how easy is to cut a cord between a mother and a child? When we do have relationship with people for that long, they are our “family”. How many times you have called your best friend sister?

Before you cut any cords, make sure what kind of karmic relationship you have with your boyfriend or any other person with whom you have these issues. Past life regression is a great way of understanding problems like that before you start cutting the energy cords. If you just try to cut the cords without knowing what happened in the past, it’s pretty much what happens in the movies “the blue or the red wire?”.

Feel free to contact Zed and I at the Psychic Nest for free spiritual advice. You can also take advantage on the free past life and auric/energy reading which is available for all our new Facebook fans.


13 thoughts on “When you can’t find Happiness and you don’t know Why

  1. I wish you knew if I was going to be able to take care of my brother and provide for the two of us. It worries me. Sorry I shouldn’t say that. Caring for him keeps me from earning a paycheck. i know……..I am worrying ahead of time

    • “Knowing your past life can also map out your future because you can jump one step ahead of the past life you are currently regressing today and see what it holds for you. With the knowledge of your past lives in this time on Earth, you can also change and create your own future. The ‘future’ is and always has been subject to change, which is a law of our own free will. ” an extract from me and my husband’s blog http://psychicnest.wordpress.com/2013/01/03/past-and-future-lives/ . You can take a look at our services anytime on our facebook page. As for your worries, it’s natural and you shouldn’t apologize for the way you feel. I know that you are going through a very hard situation, I’m sending you all my love and hugs!

    • Thank you! In the past I used to have issues with people cording me and me cording them too. This usually happens when we are insecure and we are afraid that we will lose the people around us. It’s like trying to tie them down on a chair!

  2. My dear friend, I have nominated you for The Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please visit this link for the rules: transcendingborders.wordpress.com/2013/03/19/the-very-inspiring-blogger-award/
    Another way of saying thanks for your support!

  3. Wonderful post and it comes after my reading from you. I know what my past issue is and I am trying hard to let go, I have really but there is one more thing what I have to do to feel really free. I have thought about it hard after the reading and I know now, I do need the courage to do it though!
    Thank you Ruby!

    • I know exactly how you feel and I’m glad that the reading helped you! I have been there before, things that I kept hiding deep inside, avoiding them cos I thought that only positive attitude can make me change. The more you avoid a situation, the worse it becomes. I know that you do have the strength and the courage to push and get yourself free. It will be a bit easier for you since in your past you were a natural healer and you used your music for that healing for everyone. Now it’s time to heal yourself with music too! Much love to you my friend! 🙂

  4. Ruby , I need to tell you that I have done it! I have dealt with this past issue and it wasn’t as hard as I thought. I felt the urgency to do it soon as it was weighing me down. Now I feel really free, no more hiding , it is all out and I really can feel the happiness and freedom. You have helped to realise this in the first place and gave me the courage to sort it. Thank you so much. Love you Ruby! I am trully grateful and feel so much better! HUGE hug! Ute xx

    • Your words touched my heart so much that while reading I started crying! I’m so glad that little advice from me helped you with the issue. I knew you would do it and anytime don’t hesitate to ask for advice. Love ya much girl, many many pink hugs to you! 🙂

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